Hazing on Monday. Scared. Help?

I started as a junior this year at a new high school very different then my old one. There is something called AKH (All Kinds of Hell) where senior girls choose junior girls and come get them at their houses and take them and cover them in disgusting stuff and make them wear terrible outfits to school and run around the football team in diapers and all of this stuff. I am terrified! All my friends were chosen and so was I and apparently that is a big deal, but I am a very independent person and I don't like stuff like that. My friends know the senior girls and apparently it's tradition and all in good fun. My mom says that the bonding experience will be nice and that the stories I am hearing are just to scare us. But it's scary. And I don't want to wear a weird outfit to school, i'm still trying to blend with these people as the new kid. AND there's this guy at school who I am absolutely in love with and I really don't want to humiliate myself in front of him. Any suggestions?